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July 11, 2018  |  By Natalia In Blog, People with passion

The weekly interview: Lifestyle by Helena Rojek – Osowska

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The notion of beauty has always given people sleepless nights … it doesn’t only refer to women who strive for being as close to the ideal as possible, but it also refers to men, who love being surrounded by everything what is attractive. What’s so magical hiding behind that concept? There’s no single answer to this question, as standards of beauty undergo radical changes every few years and it’s not always possible for us to fit in. What makes us attractive according to pop-culture? Big eyes? Prominent lips? Maybe impeccable figure? What if we don’t fully fit into current standards?

While being a teenager I was truly dissatisfied with the way I looked. I didn’t really appreciate the potential which was hidden in me, as there was always someone whose comment made me feel worse. After many years, I noticed that these mean comments and reality had little in common … and the truth was lying somewhere else. As long as we don’t discover beauty in ourselves, we will never be satisfied with the way we look and with the way we are perceived by others. The standards of beauty undergo continuous changes, however beautiful and valuable people will always be seen as the ones who can be role models for others. Today I’ve got much pleasure in introducing Helena – the author of a blog Lifestyle by Helena Rojek – Osowska, a plus size model, as well as a happy mom and wife.

Passion Piece: Could you tell my readers a few words about yourself?

Helena: Do you know it’s one of the most difficult questions for me?! I never know what I could tell people about myself, especially in those few magical words. Hmm … maybe I’ll share a few basic details about myself with you. I’m a wife, who has also been a mother for almost a year now. These are social roles, which I’ve had a chance to experience quite early despite my young age. I got married while being 21, and one year later I gave birth to my beloved son. These are not all of my life duties, as the ones who follow me know well, that I’m continuously growing in the blogging community. I’m also a plus size model, as well as the organizer of different kinds of events. Generally speaking … of course!

Passion Piece: How did you come up with an idea to set up a blog?

Helena: The idea to set up a blog was born quite coincidentally. I remember it like it was yesterday. I had a thought, my first idea to share my thoughts on reality with a much wider audience. I noted down most of them in my notebooks, but I also made my notes on pieces of paper, tissues or in the notepad on my phone. Surprisingly, when I was cleaning my four walls last time, I counted around 45 of such notebooks. Only notebooks – not taking numerous pieces of paper or tissues into account.

There was always something that inspired me to speak up my mind – however there were too many thoughts that I missed, they were vanishing in the blink of an eye, that’s why I couldn’t keep up with sharing them with others. Finally, when I started arranging my first photo shoots, I realized that I lacked stories to my pictures. Not everyone has such a vivid imagination like me to see the message I intended to convey. Consequently, I was missing clarity in my portfolio. I wanted to avoid so called ‘pretty pictures’ at any costs.

Passion Piece: How did you start your adventure with modelling?

Helena: The same spontaneously as my adventure with writing. I attended a photography club together with my friends, within which we could extend our knowledge in the field of photography under the watchful eye of our professor – Ms. Dziewiałtowicz. Once upon a time, during one of our classes, emerged a suggestion that we should broaden the scope of our photographing a little bit – that we should take pictures of models. People. We fell in love with this idea – the only problem we had was that we didn’t really have a model. However, we were quite creative – so we came to a conclusion that one of us could get into a character and become a model. As you no doubt have guessed – I became a model. Until now. I changed the places, I’m no longer the photographer. However, I must admit that it still happens that I take photos – but more as a hobby, to my family album.

Passion Piece: Is it easy to reconcile professional and family life?

Helena: I’m always amused with the notion of ‘career’ or professional life so to speak, as our country isn’t really ready for plus size models and it’s difficult to gain success in this business, especially the one which would be hmm … spectacular enough to maintain yourself and your family. It’s true that this year my professional life has been getting busier and busier, but it hasn’t been caused by the fact that I’ve got so many new contracts – but because of the fact that I carry out my own projects and I’m a part of creating a plus size agency. That’s why, if anyone asks me about my profession, it’s easier to say that I’m an organizer rather than only a plus size model. However, coming back to your question, if it’s easy to reconcile my professional life – no matter how vast it would be – and my family life, I must admit that it’s not easy. I’m often on the road – at least once a month. I don’t have fixed work hours, I work in the event agency JeyJey until 5 pm, and later on I take part in photo shootings, campaigns, I’m also engaged in running A&H Plus Size Agency. Many times, when I find a free moment in the evening to spend it with my husband and son – I am too tired for wild excesses. I used the word ‘wild’ as my child is at the stage of crazy crawling, prancing and learning how to walk. Yet family is one of the most important values to me and I always have a principle that during a week, when it’s not a hot period at work – I try to devote one day only to my family. Most of the times it’s Sunday – the only day, when I’m unavailable for others and I spend it with my close ones. No one said it’d be easy. However, I’m really happy about the fact that I can work at my own pace, the way I want to and I’m the one who decides when I deserve a ‘break’.

Passion Piece: What advice would you give to all the girls who would like to try themselves in modelling?

Helena: Personally, I could say that they shouldn’t be scared of taking risks. From my own experience, I know how comments heard during castings can be demotivating for you. I had to attend different castings – and many times I was told that I’m too fat or too thin with the size 38/40. Fortunately, that phase is over. I don’t need to lose my weight or to put on weight at any costs for one contract. In my opinion the most important thing in modelling is being self-confident – but not arrogant – you should be able to control yourself. Another vital feature is self-awareness, being aware of your own uniqueness and the fact that you’re the one of a kind. That makes you unique and ready to develop as a model. You need to present yourself – your look – but also character. Thanks to your internal strength you will be noticed – maybe by me?! 

Passion Piece: What’s the most difficult in photo sessions?

Helena: Currently I’m at that stage in which I don’t find posing for photos difficult. I don’t want to sound immodestly, but it’s the truth. I always try to prepare myself carefully to every photo session, that’s why I get to know all the details before taking part in a given session – either from a designer or a photographer to predict the vibes and atmosphere they want to depict in the frame. Maybe one of not so much comfortable situations is taking part in a new project, especially the first minutes of cooperation, when the crew don’t know each other well.

Passion Piece: Beauty has more than one name … how can we convince the society to this statement?

Helena: Society is created by tons of people, that’s why in my opinion it’s impossible to convince them to anything just like that, as one call in the crowd becomes an inaudible whisper. While creating a campaign titled ‘Beauty has more than one name’, I wanted to appeal at least to one person. A person who would pass it further. Let’s say that one woman shared this slogan with her friend, her friend shared it with her mother, her mother told about it her sister and so on. Thanks to such actions we can create a conscious recipient, who by word of mouth will convey the message further and further. I know that in this way the process of convincing people, and maybe better to say educating the society is difficult, tedious – and sometimes even doesn’t bring a desired result. To me success means the fact that somewhere there is a strange woman, who let’s say suffers from albinism, and thanks to me she gains the courage to put on a bikini and to go to the beach. For herself. Because she feels beautiful, unique, different and therefore real.

Passion Piece: Have you got any other passions?

Helena: I’ve got many passions. Unfortunately, I don’t have time for them at the moment. One of my passions is theatre. I also love windsurfing. You even can’t imagine how much I miss the salty taste of water on my lips, as well as the wind in my hair. I miss the calluses on my palms from holding a boom or the freedom one can feel while being in the middle of infinity.

Passion Piece: What’s your recipe for success?

Helena: I don’t really have a recipe for success, as in my opinion there is no such a thing. It’s hmm … a kind of self-deception – that it’s enough to do this, this and that and you will be ready to get to the top at once. Everyone has a different path to follow. Everyone has different tasks to complete. It depends only on us, as well as on our involvement, whether we gain success or not. I think I don’t need to remind you of the fact that everyone has a different definition of success. My hmm … let’s say advice for you – is that you should learn how to lift yourself from your knees. If you collapsed, rise up, remove dust from your knees, straighten up, raise your head a little bit and continue following your dreams. Give yourself some time, be patient and humble. Appreciate gifts of your fate, even if many times they turn to be the same useless as the next pair of socks under your Christmas tree.

Passion Piece: Where do you see yourself in a few years time?

Helena: In the past it was easy for me to answer this question, however now, when I’m a little bit smarter thanks to my life experiences, I can’t really answer it. There are so many variables, which don’t depend on me, so in a few years time I could deal with something totally different from the things I’m doing now. If I could treat it as a wish – to a goldfish – I would like to lead a safe and peaceful life, following my career.

Passion Piece: Which motto would you like to share with my readers?

Helena: I’d like to share my favourite quotation with you, the one which has accompanied me since I was in junior high school, when I had had a chance to watch ‘Dead Poets Society’ for the first time. That is ‘Carpe Diem’.

Passion Piece: Thank you very much for this conversation, which I hope will occur to be a great inspiration for many girls, who would like to change their lives and to follow their dreams.

There are as many shades of beauty as many people around the globe. Everyone has something to offer to the world, even if one feels that he or she doesn’t fit into the beauty standards imposed on society by the pop-culture. That’s why, you should try to love yourself and to work on your weaknesses, so that someone someday could say that you introduced something positive in his or her life. Don’t be scared to follow your dreams, as thanks to dreams you can become a truly happy person.

 

See you around!

Yours,

Passion Piece

Websites you should visit: http://hrro.pl/   www.ah-ah.pl  www.urodziny.jeyjey.pl

 

Photo by Helena Rojek – Osowska

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Comments: 60 replies added

  1. Esse D July 11, 2018 Reply

    I love her confidence and her energy! She's stylish and has a story to tell! KUDOS!

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      I also love this combination of elegance, confidence and energy! :)

  2. Krissy July 12, 2018 Reply

    Love the interview! I find posing in front of the camera so difficult. I love that she has found the confidence to do so. Krissy | https://www.thoughtfullyunraveled.com

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      I also find posing in front of the camera difficult, and I usually like 1 picture out of 100 pictures! :D

  3. Tairalyn Ciulla July 12, 2018 Reply

    A woman with confidence is one I envy. I need more woman like this around me.

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      I also envy such women, as I'm not confident at all! :)

  4. Christine July 13, 2018 Reply

    What an interesting interview! I enjoyed getting to know the story behind this confident woman! Thank you!

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      I'm so happy to hear that you enjoyed reading this interview! :)

  5. Rosy July 13, 2018 Reply

    I love reading interviews! You are so confident and stylish at the same time. I need to know more people like you!

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      She can be a role model for many women! :)

  6. Value Minded Mama July 13, 2018 Reply

    Super inspired by her spirit and fun attitude! I’m a mama too!!

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      Glad to hear that Helena occurred to be an inspiration for you! :)

  7. Adriana Lopez July 13, 2018 Reply

    What a good interview you made a lot of us suffer of lack of self confidence and self love because the society puts stereotypes that we cannot follow. I like the fact that Helena embraces who she is and loves herself.

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      There are too many stereotypes in the world, and it depends only on us whether we make people forget them or not ... but it's not an easy task! :)

  8. ashley gervin July 13, 2018 Reply

    What a fun and inspiring interview! I love reading about strong, courageous women! Great passion piece :)

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      Thank you! I also love reading and writing about strong and corageous women! :)

  9. Nita July 13, 2018 Reply

    What an inspirational read! Really need more confident and strong people like you around.

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      When we are surrounded by such people we also become stronger and more confident. :)

  10. Cassie July 13, 2018 Reply

    It's really interesting how things come about when you're not looking for them. I love how she became a model. What a fun read. Thanks for sharing!

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      We never know what life has in store for us until we finally find it. :)

  11. Mary Yowell July 13, 2018 Reply

    This was a great read! She is such an inspiration! I can not wait to checkout her blog! prettyonadime.com

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      I'm happy to hear that you like Helena, unfortunately her blog is written in Polish. :)

  12. Szebastian July 13, 2018 Reply

    The first thing I want the world to stop doing is addressing anyone by their size. In my eyes Helena is a model, a talent and a go better. Her size isn't her identity and it certainly isn't a negative. The negative is in the minds of narrow minded people.

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      You're right! There are as many shades of beauty as many people in the world. Everyone is unique and beautiful, it's enough not to be led by prejudices. :)

  13. Joscelyn July 13, 2018 Reply

    What a great feature! Helena is such an inspiring person and a good role model for other girls too!

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      I couldn't agree more with you! Great to hear that you enjoyed reading this interview! :)

  14. Dani July 14, 2018 Reply

    Thank you so much for sharing a piece that showcases someone with such a beautiful spirit and self-confidence.

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      Thank you for such a kind comment! Presenting such people is a real pleasure. :)

  15. Natalie AUBELE July 15, 2018 Reply

    This was a really fun read ! She sounds like a really awesome woman!

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      She is a real superwoman! :)

  16. Angela Cruz July 15, 2018 Reply

    As a plus-sized woman myself, it gave me a great feeling to read her opinions! I LOVE her attitude, and how she's branding herself as an organizer and not just a plus-size model. She is groundbreaking!

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      That's great that Helena breaks the stereotypes and does such a great job! :)

  17. Astrid July 15, 2018 Reply

    Helena, you're such an inspiration! How cool that you're a plus size model as well as a blogger. It's so awesome to get to know you through this interview. Thanks for posting this, Natalia.

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      Thank you for your kind comment! I'm happy you liked this interview! :)

  18. Jane July 15, 2018 Reply

    Inspiring interview! She is awesome! More interview like this, please!

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      Hope you'll also enjoy reading the following interviews! :)

  19. Sam July 15, 2018 Reply

    Loved this interview! Very inspiring!

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      Thank you for your kind words! <3

  20. Sandy July 16, 2018 Reply

    I loved reading about Helena - such a wonderful person. I especially love her answer about being confident without being arrogant and to be self-aware.

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      I'm happy you loved reading about Helena, as she can be a real inspiration for women! :)

  21. Indrani July 16, 2018 Reply

    So good to know Helena. She is inspiring. Good questions asked.

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      I'm glad you liked the interview and the questions! :)

  22. Karla July 16, 2018 Reply

    She's gorgeous! I love her outlook in life. We need more people like her!

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      Definitely, we need more people like her! :)

  23. Kate Allyson July 16, 2018 Reply

    Wow, this is a beautiful post! I think that women especially struggle to define ourselves as beautiful. I know I'm super self-conscious of how I look, and I hate having my picture taken. Good for Helen for going out there and proving that beauty exists in all of us!

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      We pay too much attention to the way we are perceived by others. It takes a lot of time to accept oneself and to feel comfortable in one's skin. :)

  24. Charlie | The Barefoot Angel July 16, 2018 Reply

    Wow - what an inspiration! She's so interesting and beautiful! Charlie | www.thebarefootangel.com

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      Happy to hear that you like Helena! :)

  25. Oh to Be a Muse July 16, 2018 Reply

    Thanks for this informative interview. I know when I've worked with other photographers it was sometimes difficult to get comfortable, but that's all a part of the world. www.ohtobeamuse.com

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      Working with different photographers can be difficult at times, but I bet that professional models can handle it well. :)

  26. Corinne July 17, 2018 Reply

    She is so intelligent and inspiring! I love how honest she is about balancing her career and personal life - it's all so true.

    • Natalia July 17, 2018 Reply

      Following one's career makes it difficult to balance career and personal life, it demands lots of work not to neglect any sphere of life. :)

  27. Bianca July 17, 2018 Reply

    One thing I took from this interview is to never stop learning. She got into modeling and writing from a class which inspired her to get to where she is now.

    • Natalia July 22, 2018 Reply

      I think that learning is a lifelong process and we should try to take an active part in it as long as we can. :)

  28. Devin July 17, 2018 Reply

    Really felt inspired while reading this. A great reminder of self-love and always having confidence!

    • Natalia July 22, 2018 Reply

      Sometimes we don't realise the importance of self-love and confidence ... as they are very needed in life. :)

  29. Emily July 18, 2018 Reply

    This was such a great interview! Very inspirational to women!

    • Natalia July 22, 2018 Reply

      I'm glad you find this interview inspirational to women! :)

  30. Rebecca July 19, 2018 Reply

    What a great showcase of a truly global issue among women - what determines beauty. I love how her confidence in who she is really is reflected in her words, passion, and way of life. Thanks for sharing! I look forward to hearing more!

    • Natalia July 22, 2018 Reply

      I'm so happy to hear that you find this topic important. Hope you'll also enjoy reading the following interviews! :)

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